The Berenstain Bears has entertained kids since 1962 and can still be seen on TV stations like PBS in the US and Treehouse here in Canada.
My kids love the shows.
As parents we’ve found the episodes to give some teachable moments to discuss with our kids and we normally do not even worry about them watching TV if these are the shows they are watching. They are normally “safe” shows.
Unfortunately there are exceptions. Or at least one exception which have lead to a small nightmare for our family. After hearing another mother tell me today that she rushed to turn the TV off when realizing what was happening I decided it was worth writing about.
Berenstain Bears is no longer a safe show in our house. The kids still watch them, but my youngest ask me to stay with them at the beginning of every show to make sure it is not the “Green Eyed Monster”.
It all started just before Halloween last year. My son, 4 1/2, who never had been afraid of anything, was watching Berenstain Bears while I tried to get some household activities out of the way.
Suddenly I hear him screaming. I rush back to the living room, thinking he must have hurt himself, and find him sitting on the sofa - shivering! His sister, 3 years older, who had watched the show with him was trying to comfort him.
I’m not sure how the producers screen the content for these episodes. In this case I think they must have forgotten to look at the impact of the show on the kids and what this actually mean to us as parents.
For some reason this episode made a lasting impact on my son. The topic was “envy” and Sister , as far as I understand, was having a dream about envy in for of a Green Eyed Monster.
My son no longer dears to go to his room on his own, even a request for him to walk 12 feet to get his shoes results in the “But daddy, I am scared” response. Even after nearly 6 months this is an issue. My son requires to be able to see me (or mom) t be able to go to sleep.
The bottom line is that he is really scared. For some reason this episode hit his imagination hard.
We talk about these things with our kids, and have tried to explain that it was a movie and that the Green Eyed Monster is not real but pretend. It doesn’t matter. As you might imagine this has turned our lives quite a bit upside down.
As a parent I did not expect this from a Berenstain Bear episode. While I still believe it is a good show, I’m thinking they failed us as parents by releasing this episode.
This week they showed the episode again. My son was at daycare. They were watching TV. That night he hardly slept - neither did his mom (Thanks Dear!).
This blog entry will be e-mailed to Treehouse, PBS and Berenstain Bears with a request that this episode will be pulled. As a parent, my expectation is that the Berenstain Bears will continue to entertain and give us teachable moments - and I hope they will remove this “nightmare” episode.
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